[33girl]

Originally posted by Jhawkalum
None of us can totally judege the question out of context -- but it sounds like this woman was fishing for information that shouldn't make a bit of difference during recruitment.

Your daughter should talk to her recruitment counselor or a member of panhellenic judicial board about that question, because that is soooooo inappropriate if that's how it really happened.

Ditto. I can't believe there are people that uncouth anywhere, let alone members of a sorority that's supposed to put a value on graciousness and good manners.