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Old 08-18-2005, 03:14 PM
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Originally posted by silmilek20
Well after a lot of thinking and talking with an impartial person who is in no way related to the greek community I have a better grasp of the situation. Now that I think about it I can't remember that much about that house except some of the undesirable aspects. Today I will go and look around at everyone and how they act. I just really didn't connect with the girl I talked to yesterday, and I had to talk to her the whole time, so it felt kind of like a chore. It was like they were trying to throw the minority at me. But I guess if I look past that, then it's not so bad. I just hate stereotypes and it kind of offended me the way they came to me "whats up" and all. I simple how are u doing would have been better. I have class so I like being talked to like i have class. Nothing really big. But they were the only sorority were I actually felt like a minority, because they kind of focused on that. But yeah I have reflected alot and feel a lot better about recruitment as of now. Who knows, maybe I could be happy as a Doug.
Thats the spirit.

Remember, even if you realize that you do want to join Doug, you aren't going to like everyone or get along with everyone. Some people just don't mesh, but even if you don't mesh you will respect them because they are your sister. It doesn't mean you have to have them be your bridesmaid.

I can understand not feeling comfortable talking to one person the entire time. That seems like a bad tactic on their part (personal opinion there). They should have rotated for you to get to know some more girls and for them to get to know you. But I don't know their situation.

Have fun at Doug tonight!!!!!
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