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Originally posted by silmilek20
I don't know. I am going to do a lot of soul searching. I did like some of the girls in that sorority. And that is the only bid my roommate got as well. When I think about it like that it wouldn't be so bad if we both got bids, because I do feel a connection with her, and she's real cool. I am just going to go to Pref to see all of the diff. types of girls who could get bids. But now I am going to go reflect. I am really in a sticky situation. I don't want to spend that much money if it's not right for me. ALso I am a sophmore, but this is my 3rd year. So next year I think would be too late. I tried to go talk to my rho gamma, but she's not in her room.
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Okay - so chin up, girlie! You have already learned more in a few days than most people do for a whole term
AFTER they joined a group. You have been very level headed about the rounds, and you seem to have a grasp about who you are & what you are looking for.
I will encourage you to GO to the pref - if you still don't "feel" it after, then DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT put them on your pref card. BUT - based on this post, you seem to already be connecting on some level to some girls. Just remember that no matter what group it is, not everyone is BFF with everyone else. There will always be the few that you really connect with, and these are your friends no matter what.
After you go to Pref, then ask your Greek Life Advisor (remember - a Rho Gamma may not fully understand the system) if you can list a sorority that released you. If so, and you still feel strongly for them, LIST THEM (you should be able to do this). It can't hurt - you never know where the chips will fall.
Good luck to you
