[ilovemyglo]

I am sorry you are so stressed about your rush experience so far.

I went to a prodominetly white school and when we had minorities rushing everyone got excited because we all wanted moire diversity within our chapters. To some it may have come off as liking someone for their race, but I can assure you no chapter will invite someone based on that!
I remember one girl that went through formal and she preffed my house and two others but she told us at pref that she could only see herself in our chapter or one of the others because we were so cool with her.. apparently some of the other chapters were so excited she felt like they only liked her because she was a minority. She pledged the other house but remained friends with many of our sisters. I still wish she had gone AGD- she was so fun and sweet. But never did it occur to us to be excited about her because of her race, we were excited she came back because she was freaking awesome! She deactivated from the other chapter within two years.