As SoTrue and others mentioned:
Good men ARE out there...the question becomes: what are you really looking for in a man? For instance, if you say you're looking for a "Spiritual, financially secure, intelligent man with no children and never married", then that's ALL you should be looking for when meeting a potential love connection. If you meet a man who meets this initial criteria and then you add "but he doesn't have a sense of humor" or "but he's too heavy-set (or too thin)" then in actuality, you are NOT just looking for a "spiritual, finacially secure, intelligent man with no children and never married" are you?
We all should know what we will find unacceptable in a relationship, what is negotiable and what is a must-have. When you really think this out, and you take your alone time to work on YOU and YOUR baggage and attitude towards men, then you are on target to receive your blessing when he comes. Most often, the good men (the very best ones for you) don't arrive in the package you were expecting--so be prepared!
Yes, there ARE good men out there...I know, cause I have one!
