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Originally posted by AGDee
Ok, so I'm feeling defensive too because I'm divorced twice and I struggled with that and with God and prayed a lot before ending up divorced. And, came to the same conclusion... God understands that we are human and make mistakes. I don't think God expects us to remain in situations that are unhealthy for us. He doesn't expect an abused woman to wait until death (by the hand of her husband), etc. Not only that but, the reality here is, You have no control over whether your spouse divorces you. None, zip, zero, nada. Your spouse can divorce you if they want to. You don't have to agree to it. You can fight about property and stuff, but if they want a divorce, they will get a divorce. You have no control over that.
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We don't mean stuff like that darlin.
We mean people who put as much thought into getting married as I do into what underwear I wore this morning, go into it thinking "oh well, we can always get divorced if this sucks" and think they are better than people who aren't married yet are having sex. None of which you did.
So big hug.
