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I will NEVER call the guy first. I had a guy give me his business card once so I could call him, and i told him that I would not call him first, he had my #, it was up to him to call first. And he did.
It seems like I always get the ones that will call the very next day, multiple times if I don't answer the first time.
The latest boy called me 3 times the day after we met (cause I didn't answer the phone). He then slacked off some which worried me, but I had also told him the first night that I had just gotten out of a relationship with someone that it had taken me 6 wks to realize I didn't like him. So N. wanted to be sure that I liked him so he didn't call for a day or two to see if I called him. We had a discussion about this the other night so we have now reached a conculusion that we take turns calling. Last night he called first, at the end of the convo. he reminded me that tomorrow it is my turn to call first. Crazy, but it seems to work without a lot of drama and why is he not calling questions.
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