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I underdstand completely what you are going through, and I think everyone does sometimes. My first semester I lived in our wing with a total witch and I almost dropped. What stopped me? My new member retreat was one of the best bonding experiences of my entire life. I also took the initiative to get to know other girls, if you are looking for friends who should always call you and never you leave you out, they don't exsit. People are human get busy and leave you out. Getting adjusted your first semester is hard and fun hang in there. I know that if you don't "get out" befoer initiation you will never be able to rush another house, but there was something in your house you loved during rush try to find it again. One last thing, every house is going to have people you won't get along with, or who are cliquey and in my experience they weed themselves out. Try to meet and bond with more sister I know when you are shy it can be hard at times, but growing into a new person is part of being in a glo. Good luck and fallow your hear it got you to your house it will help you out or to stay.
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