Welcome to the board BigHooter!
I just got married and unfortunatly, we didn't do anything exciting. Only a handful of sisters were able to attend, so they didn't want to sing. I think that's the only real tradition I've heard of. Often the Chi Os circle the bride, or bride and groom, and sing Shades at the reception.
I pinned my badge to the ribbon that was on my flower stems. I was afraid it would dig into me if I pinned it inside my dress over my heart and I didn't wear a garter (plus I would feel wierd about pinning it there and it could easily fall off and she wouldn't know).
I also know some chapters embroider a hanky with our letters and her inititation date or initials or whatever for her to use when she tears up.
Good luck!
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