In need: The answer to your question lies within your own heart. You should look deep within yourself for the answer. In your first post you stated that you can't see yourself in any other organization and that you know that organization is the only one you want to join. In your second post, you state "but through this I still want to be in this org". It seems to me that you already have your answer. As Mccoyred stated, each organization is bigger than any one member or any particular chapter. My advice is that you pursue membership in the organization that is in your heart, because if you do become a member of an organization which is not what you wanted, it will likely be one of the biggest mistakes of your life. Remember, membership in a NPHC organization is for life. Further, you state that you all live in a dorm, so chances are that you all are not from the same city. I don't know if you are aware or not since you stated in your second post that "she is going to the graduate chapter when she gets out of college", but the NPHC organizations have (by far) more than one graduate chapter. In fact, most larger cities have more than one grad chapter. In closing this long post, I will say that Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated was, is and will always be in my heart and I could not imagine being a member of any other organization. I never even considered any other organization. I LOVE MY AKA !!!
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