I am sssooo sorry that you have to put up with this craziness. You and your friend may be better off not associating with these girls. As far as being blackballed in the grad/alumnae chapter, grown women tend to act more mature. Also, her one vote, esp being a new college grad, will definitely not carry as much weight.
I hope things turn out okay for you.
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Originally posted by In Need of Advice:
Yes, this is real! There is more to this story (a lot more)
I know all the members of the org. We all use to be cool until she went and told them what she thinks of us and they stopped talking to us, they follow my friend around and point and laugh at her. She too wanted to join this org.
Now she is at the point where she doesnt want to join anything and the people she meets that wants to join this org she is going to tell them not to.
This girl that was in the org pulled a knife out on my friend and made death threats on her life. The police know about it and the National Headquarters know about it. They were talking about pulling her letters but they didnt. The police even searched her property for the weapon but they didnt find it because she gave it to her soror.
She has done so much s**t and gotten away with it, not to mention this is the president of this org.
My friend and I are like we dont want to be apart of an org that condones this kind of violence. I mean does someone have to die before something is done.
But through this I still want to be in this org, but no if this is what they are about and not if people like this are a part.
Question: Should I look into another org?
And I know she blackballed our names because she said so and not only that she is going to the graduate chapter when she gets out of college so there is no hope there either.
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