No Sistermadly, it never serves anyone well to be curt. I feel *awful* about how I was. I have repeatedly said I was sorry to betasigrose, she has accepted my apologies, and I would love to leave this part behind. Everyone makes mistakes, and I have not been this embarrassed in a long time.
I think that maybe people mean different things when they say shopping around. There is a big difference between looking at 2-3 groups and 10+. Or between someone coming here to get info on a few groups vs someone coming to get info on every group. I definitely would rather an AI to be someone who is interested in us and not AI in general, but I think we can all agree that want is most important is that the person is nice, sincere, will be a good sister, etc. Any sister who knows about our recruitment policies knows what type of sister and what traits are deamed important and necessary to our sorority. I just think we should use that as our guide and make sure we stick to it. I would be more specific, but I can't as I'm sure you all know.
I definitely think AI and undergrad recruitment are very different, but we should be looking for the same things in all of our sisters no matter how they are trying to join.