OK, I'm not an expert, but given what I know, this is what I would do. I would look very very closely into another org. If the group that you were originally interested in accepts girls like that, I would have serious doubts about them. So look very hard into other groups and see if you maybe DO feel something that you didn't at first recognize. If you still decide to persue membership in this one particular org, then go through rush. You may or may not get in, but you'll never know if you find out. That is a really tough situation, and I hope everything works out for the best. Anyone in a BGLO correct me if anything I said was wrong or against protocol or anything. Anyway - that is my take on things.
Allie
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