[33girl]

Gee thanks James.

All I can say is, NEVER NEVER NEVER tell the person you're dating or whatevering with how many people you've slept with previously, unless the answer is none and you need them to know that because you're a little scared (which is normal).

One of my college friends was quite the Casanova and married a girl who was somewhat intrigued by this. She bugged him and bugged him to tell her details and then when he did, she got upset and turned it around on him and blah blah blah. It's like she thought it would give her a feeling of power - look, all these girls and I GOT HIM - but it worked out exactly the opposite. The past is the past. Everyone deals with it differently. I know girls who are more screwed up from sleeping with one guy than girls who have slept with dozens, and for guys I'm sure it's the same.