im not sure if you lurked on these and other boards before you posted. if you did then you would have figured out that any discussion of membership and stereotypes associated with membership would be frowned upon.
i dont see why you would have been bothered by such comments. its really childish and silly. take another look at the national websites. black sorority women come in all shapes, sizes, cultures, socioeconomic backgrounds AND personal experiences. it is that which i think, brings them together. it is their love for their respective organization that keeps them devoted.
by bringing such a question to a board like this gives an impression that you are perhaps are not serious and are indeed one of these silly little girls that thinks membership to a black sorority is all about appearance.
devote your time more to discussions with members about what brought them to Delta Sigma Theta and what keeps them devoted to their organization. work on your personal/academic goals. you will be so focused on those things that pointless conversations will not be in your radar and mental rolodex.
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Originally posted by unfaltering
Oh I'm a female so I have gotten a little bit of almost all the NPHC sororities. You should be a xyz because you...., you look like an qrs because you..., you act like an abc because you... and so on and so on. Someone said something the other day that really rubbed me the wrong way, that's why I posted this message. I wanted to see how other people replied to these type of comments.
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