[ASUADPi]

I too, like blueangel, am willing to help. If someone pm'd me and said that they didn't join in college because there weren't chapters on her campus or whatever. But she's all like my friends went ADPi, or I have family member who is an ADPi or I researched and I feel a connection with your philanthropy and what your beliefs are. I would help her. Not to say I'd be willing to sponser her or anything (because do that she'd have to be in my city I believe), but just give her information on who she would need to contact, just so she knows how to start.

Someone has actually asked me for information and I told her that AI is a long process, gave her contact information and told her to be patient because ADPi (right now) they want to find their own AI's, they don't want to be asked (if that makes sense). AI is changing in ADPi, as I'm sure it is in other chapters. It is a continous process.

But I think it is very important to emphasize that it is a long process. Especially if you are coming from the "outside" (I'll explain what I mean in a second), making inquiries and then waiting.

What I meant by outside is a person who doesn't know a sister in the particular sorority they are interested in.

I think it is just up to members of this subforum to really read the posts and if they think it is getting out of hand, either say something yourself, pm a moderator or pm someone in that sorority.