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I agree with aephi alum. This is a very big decision.
You mentioned that you will be initiated in about a month. Have you received your big sister yet? If you have I would suggest that you give her a call, and let her know how you feel. She will probably be able to give you some very valuable advice. If you haven't received your big yet, or don't feel comfortable talking to her, I would encourage you to talk to your new member educator (I'm not sure what your sorority calls the office) she is there to help you.
Please let us know how it works out, and don't give up without a fight. Sometimes all you have to do is call someone's attention to it.
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