[PM_Mama00]

My 2nd year of being active, our president didn't like me. Actually the year after that the next one didn't like me either.... they were friends so go figure. That time was the worst for me in teh chapter and I thought about leaving so many times because I couldn't stand it anymore. I was getting put on social probation for the stupidest things and half the time stuff I didn't even do. BUT I stuck it out and tried to make the best of it. You know what? It got better!

Now that I'm alum, I sometimes think that I regret joining a sorority, but then I remember the friends that I DID make while active. And I'm not gona lie... I've seen many sisters deactivate on good terms and sometimes their friendship with other sisters dissolved.

My advice? You've been in for this long. You might as well try to stick it out and see what happens. If you still aren't enjoying yourself then make the decision. Check out the options if there is a payment plan or any kind of special status for seniors. I know my chapter has a few. See what's out there first before deactivating and giving up your letters. You never know what could happen in a year!