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Originally posted by Jeff OTMG
PLAYING hard to get is just that, pretend. If you are really interested in someone and act uninterested it is a lie. Not a good way to begin a realtionship. Honesty is best. You will find some guys, girls too, who may only be interested in what they feel that they can't have, if you run into this and the guy loses interest then you are better off anyway. Who wants a player who only goes after a girl for the challenge?
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On a similar note, you should actually BE hard to get. If you fill your life with what makes you happy, friends, activities, etc., you will only give those things up if a guy proves that he is worth your time. You shouldn't be lying to him or not returning calls, but if you happen to be busy, more power to you. It sure beats sitting around waiting for him.