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I agree with James on this one. Most of the time we don't play it right. You think you're being coy and difficult and he just gets annoyed that he can't read your mind. It's actually following that evil book "The Rules." However if you read the whole thing you find out that they are really recommending that you be easy to be around but difficult to get a hold of.
I try not to play games but one thing that's really important is to take it easy in the very beginning. It seems like if you come on too strong and call him, try to pin him down, be his official girlfriend from the word go he'll run as fast as he can. You kind of have to hang back and just take each day as it comes and go into each encounter expecting nothing more than a good time. Common sense for most of us but I have some friends (one in particular) who starts talking long term after she's been seeing some guy for a week!
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