wishin,
You have come too far to let some girl get you down!! You are going to do this!! You are going to bring the opportunity of sisterhood to a group of women who really want it, and they are going to be so thankful that you helped in that effort!! Don't let anyone from Gamma Phi Beta intimidate you, because it is their loss that they don't have someone as motivated and dedicated to their cause as you are to yours! Keep your head high and go into that meeting with the attitude that you are bringing another NPC sorority to the campus, with or without Gamma Phi Beta's support.
I hope that her attitude is just her own, and not that of the whole sorority. When I went to the colonization of our newest colony this past weekend in Indiana, I was so amazed at how supportive the NPC was! The presidents of each of the sororities came (ASA, Gamma Phi Beta, DZ), along with two of the fraternity presidents! The sororities brought gifts for the new colony and everyone was so supportive. It was truly great to see Panhellenic spirit like that.
So wishin, keep your chin up girl...you're doing a great thing, and nobody can change that!!!