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Originally posted by UKDaisy
I was flipping through some pages I had cut out of magazines when I found the "He's just not that into you" guide to SATC's men. And it had a picture of Mr.Big and Carrie with the lesson that "You are not easily forgotten. Let him find you when he's ready."
Now, with my current boy toy on his way to IU for grad school this little lesson hit home.
So are we girls easily forgotten fellas or is this just something we want to believe?
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I wouldnt say they're easily forgotten.....I still remember each girl I've ever dated as opposed to girls I just shagged on the side. I even remember stupid little instances with each past GF when something reminds me of them. As for girls I just shagged, I try counting them all every once in awhile but get mixed up after 20-something, after I do that I'll remember one that just pops up in my mind randomly like a bad STD and I'm like "oh yea, I fucked that girl" and it makes me laugh. The worst thing is when I run into one I forgot about. Geesh. Thats really bad when they come up to you and say "hey Craig!" and I have no idea who the hell they are. But I think the worst thing that has happened in my world on this subject is when you shag a girl, don't call her afterwards, a year goes by, you see her out again but have no idea who she is and try to pick her up to take home only to find out you've already shagged her and she remembers you as the asshole that never called back. And trust me, that "you must have met my brother" lie doesnt work no matter how serious of a face you hold while telling it.
The moral of my story: If you're just a shag and the sex isnt dy-no-mite, you'll be easily forgotten. He'll keep the number for a booty call and probably holler at you in 6 months to a year that way it'll make you think he really liked you so he can get laid whenever he sees you. Thats what I used to do. I talked to old booty calls from Gainesville every 6 months just to stay in contact in case we ran into each other somewhere around the state so that it'd be an easy lay. And it worked, a lot. The last time I hit an old booty call was in October after my exfiance and I called it quits for a 2nd time, right after Florida vs. Georgia. I was in Gainesville and so was this girl. She was a tennis player I met in 1999 and hit it all through college, a 6 ft tall blonde swedish breeder. It was the same girl that drank too much G and lit in the hospital for 5 days in a coma if any of you remember that story. Anyhow, we call her two names, "double teamed" or "dancing bear" depending on which friends are with me at the time her name is brought up. I ran into Emily at fat tuesdays, killed some shots and before I knew it we went to my brother's apt, went straight to his room, locked the door and didnt come out till 10am the next morning. I think I hit it like 10 times that night and never pulled out. It was awesome. All I remember was having this tall blonde chick on me with nice tits and I hit it all night/morning long. The point of this is, there's a small chance that if you're just a booty call.....he might remember you forever.
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