I see a male and wouldn't have it any other way. I go to the same ob/gyn that my mom has been seeing since before I was born. In fact my gyno delivered me and he and his partner delivered my sister (as my mom says, never go during shift change or there will be more people in the room than you really want

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He is very nice and gentle and always looks out for the best for me. When I had to have surgery he actually called to apologize to say he wanted to change the surgery so a doctor he trusted could assist.
I got very sick my junior year of college with female issues (so i thought based on symptoms). The only covered doctor in the area was female so I went. It was the worst doctor experience i've ever had. She was mean, started out by talking about my weight issues. I probably should have realized this office was horrible when on the phone they're diagnosisng me with a miscarriage based on symptons. EXCUSE ME!! It turned out to be a blood disease and thankfully i only had to see her once since i then went under the care of a hematologist.
I don't know what i'm going to do when i move b/c i don't want to change doctors.