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I just wanted to get my 2 cents in here. I was kind of in the same situation when I got my Big. Sadly, when they revealed our bigs' names to us, I wasn't sure who mine was. But, she ended up being an awesome big (spoiled me to death) and was always there when I needed her, and I had a lot of dilemas as a NM and sister. She was there for every one of them. I had even considered depledging (long story) and she and one of her roommates walked to my apartment at like 11:30, sat me down and talked to me about it. If it hadn't been for my big, I wouldn't have even finished my NM period. She has become one of my best friends. So, give your big a chance, you never know what potential she may have.
~Mindy~
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