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Our new member program (ZTA) lasts 6 to 8 weeks. In my opinion, there are misunderstandings on both sides of the fence, for example; guys think girls have it really easy because they are not as likely to be hazed, the are given presents, and because their pledge period is shorter, but as far as I know (please clarify this for me if it isn't true), guys have it easier in the way that there are not as many rules for them concerning behavior. Most sorority girls are expected to follow sets of rules which range from not drinking or smoking in their letters, to behaving like a lady while in letters (or even all the time), to not spending the night at a fraternity house, etc.
I think these rules all have good reasoning, and I certainly will obey them being the respectful new member that I am. I personally think it is somewhat sexist, however, that fraternity men are allowed to drink, smoke, and act like just plain fools while even wearing their badges or letters. Especially in Tennessee, where we as sorority girls are not allowed to have houses because they're considered "whore houses", and that is such complete B.S. ! That particular housing rule is the one that really ticks me off, but it seems that most guys agree that it's a dumb rule as well. Oh, well...I'm just ranting now...
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