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Also remember that you are not obligated to be this girl's best friend just because she is your big. Likewise, you are not barred from being especially close with the party animal just because she's not your big. I got the girl I wanted back when I got my big....I chose her mainly because I hadn't gotten to know any of the other older girls all that well!!! Later on I realized that she and I were not such a great fit. I quit worrying about my relationship with my big and started looking forward to the day I could have a little of my own. I ended up with two littles, one in '91 and one in '92....we built a great family and my second little ended up in my wedding!!! You are going to gravitate towards some people more than others in the chapter, and who those people are may change throughout your 4 (or 5) years. Don't worry about it. Just enjoy your two very different friends for who they are, get to know as many of your sisters as you can, and have a great time.
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