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Originally posted by Little E
I agree that it is hard to have over-bearing alumnae. I've delt with my share. However, something actives also need to remember that they can control this interaction too. (or at least in my opinion) When women graduate, they shouldn't be on your listserve knowing every email, and there's also a point where actives continue to tie alumnae in by telling them every dirty bit of a discussion. My college chapter had a situation, I gave her my advice, but told her that they really shouldn't be bringing this to every alumna.
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Little E is totally correct I will admit that I tend to have this problem because I am closer to alumni sisters then I am to the current sisters so when I am asked if I had a good day or am I talking to them it used to spill out O so and so did this....this and that happened, one day one of my friends was like I know were friends and stuff but maybe you shouldn't tell us all the little problems because it doesn't make you gurls look good. So I stopped when I needed advice I asked my friends but other then that I kept them updated but not on every detail.