After considering most of the advice here I talked w/ Trevor this evening. I told Trevor that I wanted to live with him but I didn't want to give up my personal space & time in order to do that. I told him that I didn't want our relationship to change right now; but in the future, possibly as soon as my one year lease is up at my new apartment, only when he is ready, we could look for a place together. And instead of me moving into his home, we could make a home together. He seemed receptive to the idea & not even an hour later was back to his normal self. I think things turned out well.
