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Originally posted by crzychx
His roommate is a friend of mine as well, which is why I've always tried to keep him in mind when I spend time there. I definitely feel like its premature & sometimes I wonder if he just feels like its getting a little late in his life or something & thats why he wants to live together now...especially w/ his past history of having a girlfriend always living with him.
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You know that's very possible that he feels that way. I dated a guy awhile back who used to start talking to a new girl when he felt like the relationship with his current girl was going downhill. Totally just so he'd never be without a girlfriend. Some people are like that, expecially if they feel like it's "time" to settle down.
I would say that if you're feeling this way about the situation then you really need to talk to him. Explain your concerns/thoughts/opinions on the situation and that may facilitate a good discussion between you and alleviate soem of the concerns you have about his motives and premature cohabitation (
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