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First of all, it's OK if you don't find your sorority soul mate right away. A lot of girls in my pledge class immediately got to be best friends and were totally joined at the hip. At first, I felt a little discouraged and left out. Now I've been in for 2 years, and I have developed those friendships. It just took me longer. Maybe it is the same for you. As far as the big sis/pledge mom thing, it's OK if you don't get someone who is like your best friend in the whole wide world. There's no law that says you have hang out with her every night or something. My advice would be to talk to your new member educator about your concerns and see what she suggests. If nothing else, be confident in the fact that you will make those friendships eventually. Obviously, you love your house, so I have hope for you. Keep your chin up!
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