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What would I change... I would either enforce that EVERYONE follows the rules, or get rid of them!
We are not 'allowed' to say anything along the lines of "I really want you here" "You would be a great attribute to this chapter"
Pretty much, we are not allowed to tell the PNM's that we (by we I mean as individuals speaking for ourselves) even like them.
We followed this rule to a T, and ended up losing at least one girl (that we would have had otherwise and dropped during pledging in hopes she can join our chapter this year) because another chapter told her "We want you here" They also wrote letters to each individual PNM, and told them they would get to keep them if they joined the sorority. They got in no trouble, but the year before, we had an infraction filed against us (but it was dropped) because one of our girls told another girl that she was a really good friend and could see her fitting in really well. Just doesn't seem right.
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