A few suggestions, for what they're worth. My chapter doesn't have a house, and our numbers are in the 20's rather then the 100's, however, many of the other greeks I knew from my university were much larger in number.


If you are wanting to get to know members outside of your pledge class, place yourself in positions were you will need to interact with others. For example, if your chapter has a study room/library, make use of it. If other members are study as well, after a few hours, sugguest a study break to get soda. Also, you're coming and going will be noticed. If you have informal/formal meals and seats are not assigned, try sitting with a table with few pledges and more actives.

You mentioned you have 4 sisters you are interested in for your pledge mom. Invite one or two of them to lunch. You might be suprised.

Good Luck and keep us posted!