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rockchick,
Just concentrate on who you want to be your pledge mom. That is the person who will be your mentor all through school (and hopefully, life). The girl who is your "big sister" (we called them sponsors) is just supposed to help you get acclimated to Greek life, etc, till you get that permanant connection. Our sponsors were usually girls who didn't have seniority or $$$ to take a little but wanted to get to know the pledges well. Sometimes your sponsor ended up being your pledge mom, sometimes not. The sponsors are usually random chosen so sometimes it isn't a great fit, but it's only for a few weeks.
Try just hanging out at the house with the girls you are considering as your pledge mom and see who you feel the most comfy with. I know it must be kind of hard with a big chapter (my whole chapter when I pledged was not as big as your pledge class!), but if you make the extra effort it will be worth it and greatly enrich your experience. GOOD LUCK! :d
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