[PhoenixAzul]

OK...subtle clues are the key.

"what sort of music do you like?"

well I like a lot of punk bands, like Anti Flag, and I'm inot the old ska stuff, like Op Ivy..

"Oh! I LOVE Op Ivy! I was at their show on blah blah day"

Really? so was I!

continue conversation, etc. Ever played 6degrees of Kevin Bacon? This is like that...find little things that could POSSIBLY connect you back to him or at least make you memorable. Talk about college, your clubs, what you like...etc. But most importantly, ask questions.

I alwyas find that my most successful flirting is done when I'm not conscious of the fact that I'm flirting. Then again, I'm a chicken shit so what do I know.

(now if only i took some of my own advice)