I know what you're talking about. In my sorority... it's like everybody has to drink- or else they won't be cool (or something like that).

I really don't like having to drink all of the time, but a couple (like two) of my sority sisters feel the same way as me about this issue. We hang out together so we won't be pushed to drink like everybody else.

The alcohol issue is upsetting at times, but I like being part of a big group on campus- whether we feel the same way about drinking or not... it's worth it.