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I'm sorry, I don't understand uber competitive rush. But she is your sister, you need to be supportive and not hide her like a bad habit. Maybe she is only roated in once, and maybe that is during the first time so the PNMs are overwhelmed to begin with and it won't get too noticed or you do it at the end when they've been through a few parties and start to relax. Whatever. But to hide her is just sad.
I think sisterhood is reality. There is nothing perfect or ideal in it. It is the real world where people have problems and being part of the sorority means working with the issues your sisters face. A woman who is going to cut you because you have an anorexic sister? I personally would say good riddens. Why do you need such a judgemental snob in your house? Besides, someone who does have such and issue is probably not going to be helpful in helping this anorexic sister deal with her issues and if she is loud could make it much much harder.
I wouldn't mix people based on diversity, go for personality compliments. To be honest, if you put her next to someone overweight she will look worse. Her personality will probably be what comes out the most and remember that it isn't like she is a transvestite, she's anorexic. Chances are that the PNMs have seen, know or have personal experice with this. Give her a chance.
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