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Like PhoenixAzul said...are you 100% certain that she has an eating disorder.
Since i'm not in a sorority... i guess i could tell you how i would react. My first reaction would be wow she's thin, but I wouldn't automatically assume she was anorexic. I have several friends who are on the fraile side, but they are nowhere near anorexic.
Even if you lock her in the kitchen, there is no guarantee that one superficial PNM wouldn't see her. Even if she was anorexic, maybe she could reach out to another PNM who had the same problem or was contemplating anorexia. What would happen if you had a sister that was obese? Would you hide her just because you don't want the stigma of being the "fat house?" People will say what they will, no matter how much you dont want it. Let her rush...if I was rushing your group, I would 100% guarantee that i would drop you just because one sister was anorexic.
I know its not a real good way of thinking, but if I was in the situation I would think if they are gonna drop us for that superficial reason, we don't want them.
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