[PhoenixAzul]

Jeez, what a quagmire...I don't envy you.

Honestly, I'd be hurt if my chapter asked me to stay in the kitchen (ironic for someone with an eating disorder, no?). Perhaps you should pair her up with a sister who is more on the "healthy" side of weight, even "heavy", and go for diversity in your other pairs as well. Diversity of body types, ethnicities, religions...show off that your chapter can't be typed by one girl.

On a side note, are you CERTAIN, as in 100 percent, swear on the bible, certain that she has an eating disorder and not a digestive problem or an endocrine disorder? One of my great friends is unbelievably skinny due to a stomach disorder that leaves her unable to keep food down most of the time, and therefore making her skinny. She's also a dancer, which means that people are constantly whispering about her weight, but she can't help it. Sooo...I guess what I'm saying is be tactful and find out what is REALLY going on, maybe not you directly, but perhaps her big sister or the house mom. And even then, DO NOT spread it to the house, even if it is a medical problem. Once again, discretion is the key.