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valkyrie and SoCalGirl make an excellent point. Most girls tell their
closest friends every single detail. One possible reason she wouldn't, would be her actions might appear hypocritical. Another, if some of her friends have ties to her parents. (That's a stretch though.)
If she has the determination and focus to achieve her goals, she very well could be responding to her physical desires but blocking out the emotional tie. If she is in conflict with her belief system, you may make her feel guilty.
Hubby and I dated apx 10 years (off and on) as he was going to prof. school. His parents didn't want us to get married until he finished and said, "We will not pay for your sex life." Maybe there is a chance that her parents would cut her off if she gets deeply involved. She must ask herself if it's worth the risk. Bottom line-I'd step back and wait this one out. At the least, as difficult as it may be, eliminate the sex and see what is really between the two of you. Great sex can cloud anyones feelings and pop into our minds at the oddest moments.
Last edited by justamom; 10-05-2001 at 05:21 PM.
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