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Words of advice to sisterfriends who come here BEFORE AND AFTER being 'positively reinforced'.
Treat a message board like a new job. You earn respect, friendship, and trust on these places. Do you go to a new job blabbing your mouth and saying and asking anything the first day? NO YOU DON'T.
READ. READ. READ. That is what message boards are for. I read the rules my first day here and I AM A DELTA(as we have rules also) How can you miss them?? They are at the TOP!
These sisters, MY sisters are just trying to help ya. Some of you just don't know any better about discretion and just sad to say it but you lack common sense approaches on handling an interest in a "INVITATION ONLY" organization. I would suggest learning by the bad examples of others: christian girl, Iwannabe.
This is tough love, if you really are 'interested' get used to this as it doesn't end...if you are perservering...who knows?
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