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I pursued my first husband. We worked together, ran into each other at parties and I flirted with him a lot. When we had a mixer with his fraternity, I asked him to walk me home. We sat outside the library and talked for a long time. I asked him to my formal. We dated exclusively from then until we got married 4 years later. He was pretty shy and kind of social phobic, so I don't know if he would have asked anybody out first. He had only had one girlfriend before me and that was in highschool, and they had dated for a couple years. It started when she asked him to a dance. My "pursuit" ended with asking him to my formal. From there, it was up to him whether we continued or not.
I also pursued my second husband, I guess. I was at Happy Hour with all my co-workers and I told them I was going to practice flirting with this guy who was playing a video game. I was pretty newly divorced from the first husband. He asked me for my number, but I had initiated the contact. I would call that "pursuing". He called and asked me out two days later.
Dee
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