btb87 and 9dstpm,
Sorry to hear about your seperations, I know how difficult it can be. First and formeost pray and ask God to help you through it. Secondly have either of you read "The Power of a Praying Wife" by Stormie Omartian. That book changed my life and whole take on marriage. I read it like 2 years ago and recently again. I was also seperated from Mr. Wonderful1908 cause he wasn't being so Wonderful, and I truly thought I was gonna have to divorce him, if anything just for my minds sake. I prayed and prayed and stayed on my knees alot, especially considering I was pregnant and we had just built a house. It was SO HARD because I began to think maybe I am crazy and clearly I am above this BS and I am to smart to be dealing with this crap, but prayer did work! Things are so good now, I had to learn to stop being so demanding and verbally assaulting him and realized where he was weak I was strong and vice versa.
I was going to PM you, but anytime God does something glorious in our lives we should let everybody know.