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Originally posted by Dionysus
Guys, has a girl ever persued you? Did you like it?
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Yes, but in varying degrees.
Hooking Up – If I hook-up with a girl the first night I meet her, I will never seriously date her. She might think what were doing is dating but it’s not, it’s just sex until you realize that you don’t mean anything to me and you a find a guy who actually likes you. Now I’m sure some of you ladies might freak out about this but keep in mind the only girls I have ever hooked up with on the first night are the ones who pursued me in that manner.
Numbers – If a girl gives me her number without me asking for it, I’m ecstatic. Because honestly even when I get numbers from girls half the time I don’t call. Don’t ask me why I don’t have a legitimate answer. But if she takes the time to give me her number I will call 100% of the time.
Dates – Now I’ve had two different types of dates where a girl asked me out. One just the pretty standard date…I drove, paid for everything etc. But I’ve also been asked out where she took on the dominant roll by paying and picking everything. It was pretty relaxing not to have to worry about anything but it was very weird being paid for. I’ve come to the conclusion that if you ask me out then it better not just be a way to get a free meal but in the same sense don’t go full out. Treat me to dinner or a movie but don’t go full out because it feels emasculating having someone pay for the entire evening.
Do I like being pursued by girls? Sure who doesn’t. Have any of them ever developed into a significant relationship? In high school yes, but not in college.