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Originally posted by Wonderful1908
Hey the party is over? Why didn't anybody tell me?
dsteazye74 ,
I am 27 and married with 2 kids. No I can't just at 11:13 pm go out on the spur of the moment, or spend 1/3 of my next check on a purse without weighing the options but the party is not over. You just trade the party all the time for sometimes. Its odd because my husband was at work last night and my oldest is in Louisiana for the summer with grandparents and the baby was sleep. As I was sitting there eating my tasty steak, I thought I wish my husband was home to eat with me. Being married is a beautiful thing, we try to balance the party life with the life that requires hiding christmas gifts, talking in silly voices, making grilled cheese sandwiches, buying poptarts, receiving sloppy kisses, good hugs and numerous request for school to be eliminated from our third graders routine. It also means having to never look for a date, someone to kill spiders, laugh with and think I am oh so fine all the time, and split the bills with. It's HARD work but so worth it!
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Soror, this is so true. Unfortunately, I'm not at that "happy place" right now (separated), and it is indeed an adjustment, but when it was good, it was really good.
I love the "someone to kill spiders" part. I have awakened my husband out of a sound sleep to kill a spider, or catch an errant frog that unfortunately found its way in the house (and toilet). Also, when we were first married, he was TDY (former military) and one of those gigantimus palmetto roaches was in the house. I didn't want to step on him or kill him with a shoe, so I squirted liquid dishwashing detergent on him. The bug died, I left it in the floor for another few days until my husband got home, and he cleaned it up. Yes, there are perks to being married!