thanks Sistermadly! The idea of being super-involved in both Phrateres and a sorority at the same time is perhaps a little unrealistic. I know a couple girls did it, joining Theta when it came back to campus, but they ended up just sticking with Theta. There have been quite a number of girls who have left Phrateres and gone on to sororities but I don't think anyone has been able to do the two at once.
But, should I ultimately decide to do recruitment this year, I will be the question-asking queen
(Unlike 2 years ago when the only question I could EVER come up with was "what's your philanthropy?") But I am not so worried about feeling like next year would be the last year I would have a chance of getting in...if it just doesn't work out for next year, there is always 4th year...
Again, thanks to everyone! This is something that has been on my mind for ages and I appreciate all the feedback