I think that there was a young woman who was interested in the chapter I advise who was a member of Phrateres. Eventually she found that both organizations required a lot of her time, and she ultimately decided to stay with Phrateres.
Not to suggest that her experience will mirror yours, but it's something to consider. Being in a sorority is a HUGE time commitment - there are a number of events that you simply won't be excused for. I think the honest thing to do is when you're going through this year to talk to all of the women and to ask them how much time they spend on sorority life (meetings, philanthropy events, and the fun stuff, too) and give it some serious thought.
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