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Originally posted by amanda6035
There is an opportunity for everyone out there. It embarrasses me to know that there are girls that i'm supposed to call "my sisters" on a national level, who are SO shallow that they would make fun of an older girl for joining....
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I feel the same way but unfortunately this does probably happen in many chapters regardless of the organization. I find it hard to believe that when you put that many varying personalities together everyone is going to get along that well. And the issue doesn't have to be about age, it could be about anything. I am not saying that it happens to everyone, but I find it hard to believe that many organizations do not face the problem at one time or another where you get a few women who get fixated on something that they want and everyone else is afraid to stand up to them. That is what I was talking about in regards to the cattiness. But I think this is taking away from the original discussion so I will shut up now. Amanda, I think all anyone is saying is to try to see it from the many different sides that will exist. I also still believe that the only one who can make this decision is the one who is actually going through it, if you go back and read my posts, that is what I was saying all along
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