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Originally posted by AchtungBaby80
It's OK...James just likes to stir things up. 
There's no reason you should have to put up with this. I can understand if you feel like you need to "be there" for him because he's having a hard time, but I think in this case it would just be opening a can of worms. Even if your friends think you're being heartless, you really need to cut this guy off. But yes, talk to your paster, or somebody, about what's going on--maybe someone can help the poor dude.
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Thanks, I'm making progress. Well, at least I'm not so indecisive. I'm still not sure of what I'll do when I see him in person, he's not the type to go away when ignored (he'll just follow me till I say something). I don't know what I'll say to him if that happens, but I've stopped returning his calls, and that's a start. And I haven't from him in some days, that's good. Thanks everyone, it's a huge relief to actually have a plan.