No disrespect but that didn't really make any sense. Our relationship is not the reason I'm talking about this now. I'm talking about my current problem, which my past relationship is the root of, there's a difference. And to say that I'm not trying to move on with my life shows that you clearly didn't read the post that started this thread:
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Originally posted by christiangirl
This bothers me...What we had was really special (we were friends first) but in my eyes, it's over now...our personalities just don't click together anymore and I get really annoyed to see him on my caller id so often...I know him--if you reach out just a little, he will wrap himself around you until you suffocate. How can I ease him off my back...?
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If I was trying to keep this going, I wouldn't be asking for advice on how to stop it. I've only tried to justify our contact once, b/c the situation could become life-endangering and the only reason my friends wouldn't understand is because I've kept much of it from them, not flaunted it as you implied. And even despite all that I still said I'd stop contact with him, which I did. So, no offense, but your post strikes me as completely off-base, pointless, and a bit offensive (as you basically called me a self-absorbed drama queen who likes having guys threaten my life and theirs).