[TheEpitome1920]

Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
The next man I date or spend time with must have:

the ambition to carry him through even when his resume isn't getting him there

a strong sense of humor and the ability to enjoy mine

musical taste that is beyond the radio's top 40 adn the 106 and Park's regular rotation

dreams but the tenacity to keep them from being deferred

a plan B

mental prowess to appreciate the writings of Cornell West, the spiritual teachings of Vashti McKenzie and the comic philosophy of Aaron McGruder

an appetite for Black history, innovation, and progess

a heart that loves family, friends, and the presence of a good woman complete with imperfections by his side

ability to be his best in the boardroom, bedroom, or the ball court/field

the manners of a gentlemen

the tears of Jesus (if Jesus can cry, so can you)

appreciates Black art

willingness to try new things or show me new things

has read a book beyond Dr. Seuss' The Cat in the Hat or Encyclopedia Brown's old crime sleuthing stints

a familiarity with his kitchen and the appliances that are within; you don't have to be Emeril but at least know how to throw together a decent meal

respect, love, and admiration for Black women

spontaneity

dancing feet that don't step on mine

my back as I pursue my dreams

a love for serving the community

suitcases ready to travel for either a weekend getaway, week long vacation or whereever the roads lead us



I think that covers it now. Jet lag is zapping my energy.

great list!